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3 Unfortunate Mistakes Even the Most Conscious Moms Make
What you need to know to raise whole children, have harmony in your family and for parenting to actually be EASY!
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Below is information on the
Clean Parenting Program which I now recommend to almost everyone who wants to work with me, even before doing any one-on-one work, because it is so powerful in supporting parenting in alignment with one's values The next group starts Monday October 3rd, 2016 and there are only 10 spots in it. Make sure to contact me if you think you might want one of those spots so we can schedule our talk to explore if it's the right fit for you. |
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Do you resonate with what you're hearing? Does it REALLY make sense to you? Do you want in your family what I have in mine? Or do you want to talk about the Clean Parenting Program? If so I'd love to talk with you! Just enter your info in the box to the right to schedule a no pressure and no obligations whatsoever FREE session with me. |
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The CLEAN PARENTING program
A program that takes peaceful parenting from theory to day-to-day reality in your family!
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Are you tired of losing it your children? Of wavering between permissive and authoritarian, and not being able to consistently parent in alignment with your values? Do you just want to know HOW to respond positively when you don't like your children's behaviors? Are you upset at all the times you fall short of your parenting ideals? Do you strive to be a positive and peaceful mom but it's just not working the way you want it to? |
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Do you find yourself sometimes doing or saying things to your children your promised yourself you'd never do?
Would you love to finally know how to clearly guide your children in a way that's respectful of them, so they actually WANT to listen to you?
Do you have unrealistic ideals which most of the time leave you feeling inadequate and beating the crap out of yourself?
Do you want a solid parenting foundation that will cut through the conditioning and put you back in touch with your instincts?
Are you ashamed at some of the things you've done and think people would know you're a bad mom if only they knew?
Have you read lots of great parenting books and feel like you 'know it all,' but it's done little to change your day to day experience?
Do you want to make sure that your children don't grow up having all the same baggage you have?
Are you ready to obliterate the generational pattern of dysfunction in your family?
Would you love to finally know how to clearly guide your children in a way that's respectful of them, so they actually WANT to listen to you?
Do you have unrealistic ideals which most of the time leave you feeling inadequate and beating the crap out of yourself?
Do you want a solid parenting foundation that will cut through the conditioning and put you back in touch with your instincts?
Are you ashamed at some of the things you've done and think people would know you're a bad mom if only they knew?
Have you read lots of great parenting books and feel like you 'know it all,' but it's done little to change your day to day experience?
Do you want to make sure that your children don't grow up having all the same baggage you have?
Are you ready to obliterate the generational pattern of dysfunction in your family?
Then join me for a journey that will TRANSFORM your parenting!
Your life will be noticeably more peaceful and your parenting more effective by the end of this Program.
You'll have resolution on most if not all of the top situations you struggle with every day.
You will finally get what being a clear and effective leader is and know how to put it in practice.
You'll be parenting a lot closer to your ideal and your values.
You'll learn and practice the basics of peaceful and effective parenting, integrating them systematically in the situations that are most challenging in your family.
You'll get re-framing of beliefs and attitudes that cause ongoing struggles so that life with your children will naturally become easier.
You'l get the daily support of a whole tribe committed to the same goal as you and walking the same steps with you.
You'll have a clear map and tools to fully achieve your highest intention with your children.
You'll also get the support of a professional coach and more importantly mom of 3 who has been where you are and has successfully put into practice everything you'll be learning.
ALL IN AS LITTLE AS 30 MINUTES A DAY!!!
“I suddenly feel so hopeful, so optimistic about the kind of mother I can be. Yes, I still need time to integrate all of this after next week, but I can do it, and I feel confident that it will all become clear in my mind (with my intention to make it so) so I can begin to easily refer back to the appropriate technique in any given circumstance, until it eventually becomes embodied reflex. Yeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaa!
I REALLY need/needed this leadership on how to be a leader. I didn’t realize until the past two weeks just how confused I have been about how to be a leader for my daughter without suppressing her human right to freedom. Thank you, Eliane!”
Lisa B. with 15 months old daughter, in Sweden, week 4
I REALLY need/needed this leadership on how to be a leader. I didn’t realize until the past two weeks just how confused I have been about how to be a leader for my daughter without suppressing her human right to freedom. Thank you, Eliane!”
Lisa B. with 15 months old daughter, in Sweden, week 4
You’ll learn how to:
You’ll learn:
- fully honor and respect your children’s spirits and still have (relative!) peace and order in your family, including being able to get to your appointments on time!
- create an atmosphere of ‘being on the same team’ in your family, so interactions are easy and joyful, so your children don’t even feel the need to fight together.
- establish yourself as a clear and benevolent leader with your children, so that they listen to you and cooperate, from a place of trust and harmony (NOT from the authoritarian and autocratic place you likely experienced as a child.)
- create an environment and a life to best support your goals for your family.
- find win-win situations for every aspect of your life, so people’s needs no longer go unmet.
- get clear on what is non-negotiable for you, vs what are just preferences.
- handle each of the above situations distinctly with your children, so they know you mean what you say.
- the skills to support your children in their unhappy feelings in a way that is connecting, healing and honors them.
- how to talk to your children so they want to listen to you, how to inspire them to cooperate.
You’ll learn:
- which expectations are realistic and which aren’t, both for your children as well as for yourself.
- what needs you have that are currently unmet and you’ll come up with strategies to meet them, so that you’re no longer meeting your children’s at the expense of your own.
- what needs your children have which are unmet and causing their acting out, and you’ll come up with a strategy to meet them.
- what’s realistic for your life and let go of unattainable ideals which only cause you (and therefore the rest of your family) pain.
- to accept yourself as you are – limitations, screw ups and all – the way you do your children, so your energy can be spent in positive ways instead of beating yourself up for all the ways you fall short of your ideals.
What you can expect:
At the beginning of the program, you’ll write a list of ALL the situations you struggle with in your family.
By the end of the program, for most parents, either all situations have been resolved or only one is left, with a strategy to resolve it.
How does that sound?!?
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You will get:
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One mom's experience in week 4:
"As we were leaving the park this afternoon, once I told my son that it was time to leave, he insisted on going on everything in the park that he hadn't yet tried. After letting him play, then finally insisting he come, he was half co-operating, half resisting, and not letting me put his shoes back on. Then it suddenly dawned on me that I hadn't handled the situation well at all. So I took a big deep breath and realised I needed to get my head back in the game! So I said 'what's going on honey? what do you want right now?' He didn't say anything, but straight away he sat down and let me put his shoes on and followed me out of the park. I still can't believe it thinking about it now. Maybe he just needed to know that I cared about what he wanted? But it's amazing what can change in an instant when we just bring our awareness and attention to it." 
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Logistics:
- The cost of this program, valued at $1500, is only $897!
- Special discount for couples, if you both want to be on the calls and get the wonderful Forum community and support. The program is offered at a 50% discount for your spouse. (You are still encouraged to share the modules and call recordings with your spouse if s/he doesn't register but s/he won't get the individual coaching which is a core component of this program.)
- The assignments start Monday October 3rd.
- The date of the first Q & A Call is Sunday October 9th at 11 am US CDT. The following call dates will be announced soon and the times will alternate to accommodate participants from all continents. You will receive the recordings afterwards, as an ongoing reference and in case you miss a call.
- You'll be added to a Facebook group exclusive to the participants in YOUR group a few days before the program starts. This is where you'll receive support from Eliane throughout the program. The group will remain active afterwards so you can continue to connect with and get the support from the other participants.
- At the end of the program, you receive an E-book with all the assignments and worksheets.
- There are only 10 spots in this group, so make sure to register now if you want to participate.
- Two half price scholarships per group are awarded to parents who are committed to implementing peaceful parenting principles in their family and simply cannot in any way afford the cost of the program. Email me at [email protected] to receive a scholarship application.
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"I'm super happy right now so I want to share with you all... I signed up for this program with Eliane out of true desperation 3 weeks ago. I felt that Vivienne was picking up on my stress and it was causing some pretty big problems for us. She had major separation anxiety and I just felt like I was going to lose it any second. I couldn't walk into another room without her full out screaming and crying. I knew she was hurting and I was hurting too. I am embarrassed and ashamed to admit that I was using Netflix as a babysitter for Vivienne way too often because I so desperately needed a break and didn't know how else to get it. I felt such extreme guilt over it because it so goes against my values. Looking back I can see that Viv felt my guilt and that was causing anxiety in her. So, I signed up for this program and 3 weeks later things are completely different. I am amazed at what Eliane has done for us. Our days have this easy flow to them that wasn't there before. I feel so PRESENT with her. I'm calmer and so is Vivienne. She plays by herself for hours now! I can go to the kitchen to get something to drink while Viv stays in the playroom. That's HUGE! And the best part...most days she watches NO TV! And when she does it's for a short time and not coming from a place of me desperately needing a break. It comes from a rational place inside me, |
Halley Giles with Vivienne, almost 3.
At that point Halley had also done 3 one-on-one sessions with Eliane, as part of the Parenting For Wholeness DEEP HEALING Program.
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like "okay, yeah you can watch your show so I can watch mine and cook dinner." The only thing that happened was a shift within myself. When I shifted, so did Viv. It's like the stress just melted away. Our issues melted away. I've seen it happen time and time again with us. It just shows how connected our children are to our thoughts and feelings without us saying or doing a thing. Eliane got me to connect with what was inside myself. And once I connected with it I could release it. When I cleared my own crap out of the way, the problems resolved themselves. I'm just in awe and moved to tears when I think about where we were just a few weeks ago!! I highly recommend her quick start program for anyone struggling with anything at all or who just wants to be the best mom/dad possible. She's brilliant and I am forever grateful."
DO YOU WANT ALL THIS?
INVEST IN YOUR FAMILY:
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Not sure if this program is the right fit for you?
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Like what you're reading but this program's format doesn't seem right for you?
Email Eliane at [email protected].
We'll schedule your free 30 minutes session where we'll discuss the best way for you to achieve your parenting intention with your children.
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"I feel so relieved! Before doing this course, I had already heard about a lot of the concepts that you teach, they really resonated with me, so I started trying to incorporate them into our lives, but I often felt frustrated, and like a failure, because I wasn't always living up to these new standards that I had created for myself. Having the opportunity to really focus on our relationship, with a little guidance from you, is just what I needed. I can now see much more clearly where I've been slipping up, and I'm feeling really positive about the future. I can't wait to see what else starts to fall into place this week!" Emma P. with 3 year old son, in Australia, week 5 |
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Dali with Elvin, 14 months, Sweden |
I really feel like issues that were weighing down on our connection have almost completely resolved. I am starting to learn how to honor my emotions and needs rather than let them manifest as resentment towards Elvin. I have become a lot less child centered, and when I do stop my day to be with him, I do things that we both enjoy and feel like they deepen our connection, like playing together with building blocks or rough housing, rather than boring time passing activities like tv. Elvin actually smiles SO MUCH MORE! When our eyes meet he just lights up and smiles! I think he feels a lot more respected, much more part of a team, and it is allowing him to open up to me more. I feel like I have my parenting more in line with my beliefs now, which also allows me to loosen up and flow with situations. Last night I nursed him to sleep for over an hour. Instead of getting impatient and cranky, I relaxed and enjoyed our closeness. For the first time EVER, even though he was very tired, there wasn't a single fuss during the whole time, even when I changed his diaper! There were quiet coos, and smiles, and cuddles, and breastfeeding, and I really felt like we were reconciling in a way, like that was him and me sharing love and reconnecting on a deep level. |
"I just finished an INCREDIBLE conscious parenting program by Eliane Sainte-Marie. It has really helped me connect my high ideals, about how to parent in a conscious connected way, with my actions and interactions with my daughter/family. It has improved my relationship with my daughter drastically (which wasn't so bad to begin with ;)) and really given me skills for not only parenting but also LIFE in general. I cannot speak highly enough about this program or Eliane! Check her out!"
Tawni with Lula, who's 2, Iowa, USA.
Would you like to get the learning from the Program
but do it on your own, at your own pace?
Get the...
CLEAN PARENTING™ Self Study Program.
You will get:
- 17 content modules - you'll get access to the next one once you complete each assignment
- 4 integration modules - interspersed with the content ones, to help you integrate the learning
- A detailed plan to continue to integrate the work and get support after the Program is done
- An E-book with all the assignments and worksheets
- A detailed map to fully integrate your learning into your life
- You'll have met the requirements to participate in the Clean Relationships Program!
The cost is one payment of $247.
Eliane Sainte-Marie
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I'm Eliane Sainte-Marie and my greatest accomplishment has been raising three thriving daughters who have an unshakable sense of self, are self confident, inner motivated, self sufficient and know how to find their own happiness in the world,
I founded Parenting For Wholeness to help other parents have in their families what I have in mine. So they can also enjoy their children instead of managing them and handling conflicts. So they can also experience was I have, that parenting CAN BE EASY and joyful! I help parents raise their children to grow up whole and have ease, harmony and joy in their families while doing it. I also help them heal and clear what's preventing them from parenting in alignment with their values and being whole themselves. |
* What is Clean Parenting? Click here to receive my report, The Almost Magical Formula for surprising ease and harmony in your family, while fully honoring your children's spirits. It describes its four core principles, which when integrated and used together do lead to almost magical ease and harmony in families.