The Trauma Healing Program
(This program is for Clean Parenting™ program graduates only)
Early-bird rate until November 22nd
For several years now, I've known that I was meant to create a program for some kind of trauma healing, that my purpose in this life was both to help people with parenting and with recovering from trauma.
All I've gone through in the last 23 years to heal myself, all the different methodologies I've studied have provided me with the foundation to understand trauma and what's needed to recover from it.
I believe one of the reason my Clean Parenting program is so powerful is that I've reversed engineered the result wanted.
I'm finally in a place to be able to do the same thing for healing from developmental trauma and emotional abuse!
In this program, I'm going to provide you a foundation from which to understand your trauma, how it plays out in your life, what you need to heal it, and start that healing process, helping you uncover your own healing style as well as providing you with tools that are effective for YOU and support your healing on your own time as well as with support.
My goal is to support women in healing in just a few years instead of decades like me, by providing them the needed information and support to do so effectively and efficiently, in the most direct way possible.
Me and my favorite Circle teen, Christine, after a women's Circle at my house, circa 2006
How Might Your Life Have Been Different?
How might your life have been different, if, as a young woman, there had been a place for you, a place where you could go to be among women ... a place for you when you had feelings of darkness? And, if there had been another woman, somewhat older, to be with you in your darkness, to be with you until you spoke ... spoke out your pain and anger and sorrow.
And, if you had spoken until you had understood the sense of your feelings, how they reflected your own nature, your own deepest nature, crying out of the darkness, struggling to be heard.
And, what if, after that, every time you had feelings of darkness, you knew that the woman would come to be with you? And would sit quietly by as you went into your darkness to listen to your feelings and bring them to birth ... So that, over the years, companioned by the woman, you learned to no longer fear your darkness, but to trust it ... to trust it as the place where you could meet your own deepest nature and give it voice.
How might your life be different if you could trust your darkness ... could trust your own darkness?
- Judith Duerk, Circle of Stones:
Woman's Journey to Herself
In the Clean Parenting YOURSELF Program, you will learn:
- to understand trauma, how it develops and what's needed to heal and unravel it
- to figure out who you are so you can live anchored in yourself
- to be on your own team
- to be gentle and tender with yourself
- to empathize with yourself
- to set boundaries
- how to finally feel safe in your body, your relationships, the world
- to know yourself
- to create real support in your life
- to meet your own needs
- how to heal, emotionally and on the nervous system level
I've just realized that one of my gifts, when it comes to healing work, is my ability to help you find your very own healing path, so that after working with me, you'll be able to achieve your own healing, without the help of a skilled facilitator.
You'll be able to tap into the power of peer and Sisterhood support, because all you'll require is the safety, presence and holding of any trusted person to provide you the container in which you can achieve your own healing.
This is a pilot version of this program, which I might turn into a year long program in 2023, and is a pre-requisite for my Healing Coaching Training program.
Some of the specifics of it might change, as tends to happen when I run pilot programs, if I find ways of improving it as I create it and we progress through it. Things like adding more calls, more features or more modules.
But I promise you will not receive LESS than what's already listed here.
The format for the program will resemble that of the Clean Parenting one:
- The bulk of the information will be provided to you in modules. There will be 8 weekly modules. Those modules are a bit more extensive than the Clean Parenting ones and they do provide exercises and practices that you'll be expected to do between modules.
- There will be a Facebook group where you'll be asked to post your work and I'll engage with you.
- We'll have 5 group calls to connect and heal in the depth of a Circle, as well as to check-in in general and for me to answer any questions you have. To overall go more deeply into the material in the way live conversations allow for.
Me and my bff Chris (also Christine!), in my next house, after a women's Circle and healing event, 2012
- 8 weekly modules
- 5 2 hour group calls, which include Circles
- 5 1 hour one-on-one healing sessions with Eliane
- Starts Monday January 17th
- Cost: one payment of $1897 or 4 monthly payments of $549 - early-bird rate until November 22nd: $1647 or 4 payments of $477
I'm very excited about this. As always, my goal is to provide you with all information and exercises you need to best integrate all the concepts into your relationships and interactions.
Let me know if you're interested and have any questions.
I can't wait to be working with many of you again!
You can also pay in 4 installments of $549
($477 till Nov. 22nd)
Without Individual Sessions
Though I HIGHLY recommend you do the full program to really get the depth of what's possible through this amazing work, you can also do the program without sessions for one payment of $1197 or 4 monthly payments of $349, early-bird rate until November 22nd: $997 or 4 payments of $299.
You can also pay in 4 installments of $349
($299 till Nov. 22nd)
Here's what Alice from the UK has shared of her experience of working with me:
"When I met Eliane a year ago, I was regularly collapsing into a non-functional state of just surviving. I couldn’t tell you what triggered me, I didn’t even understand that term fully. Gradually over the year I’ve benefitted so deeply from Eliane’s lived-understanding of trauma and have absorbed so much wisdom as if by osmosis through my one to one sessions with her. Her expertise in this area is unparalleled: she sees where the trauma resides in me and has the most wonderful way of explaining why I have responded to life in the ways I have: so many of my behaviours and struggles have been responses to the trauma of living in a disconnected world. Not only does she have a sharp intuition for spotting these behaviours in all their shapes and forms, she also has potent medicine to share with the world: how to heal from those traumas, how to develop a sense of self-safety that I have never felt. From there I have started to see myself become functional from the inside out - not from a place of ‘I should do x/y/z’. Her ‘method’ has been one of deep love and acceptance for all parts of me, and is so efficient! Her ability to zone me in, gently and lovingly, to the areas I have never wanted to face alone, is life changing and I can tell that her own journey with healing trauma in her life has meant she knows, on an energetic level, what works and what doesn’t. I am so grateful to her for her own journey, and for her love, guidance and holding of me over the last year. I am slowly emerging from a cocoon, with more energy for life and authenticity than I ever dreamed was possible."
Here's what Natasha from California wrote of her experience of working with me:
"Eliane, an unmothered mothers' mother, has been such a gift in my life in so many ways. I did one on ones with her and they were so gentle, at my own pace, respectful and so so healing. I appreciate HOW she holds space for me and allows me to process things in my own way. There’s a lot of wisdom, trust and safety with her for me, which I think is what’s been allowing me to go as deep as I did with her. I have only good things to say about working with her. Even though the process of healing from trauma is not usually fun, I have learned, with her loving and highly intuitive guidance, how to feel!! and get back in touch with all the things I numbed myself from. Love her. ♥♥♥"
Here's what Kristen from Colorado wrote of her experience of working with me:
"I’m not sure I can quite put into words exactly what Eliane and her programs have done for me. When my first son was born, my world completely changed. So many things that I thought I knew suddenly didn’t make sense, and philosophies I believed in no longer resonated. His arrival shook everything up.
As I ferociously searched the internet to try to find some “parenting style” that did feel good to me, I came across The Continuum Concept. When I found it and started reading it, I could feel that this was THE book I was looking for. My whole body relaxed once it was in my hands and I started digesting it. As much as I loved that book, I could tell pretty quickly that I was going to need help applying it in this modern world. As I got back on the internet to find that someone, I of course came across Eliane’s work. And while reading the first article of hers I found, I again got that familiar feeling of this is THE person. Every single word she wrote seemed to hit straight to my heart, and I was like “yes! this is 100% it!”
Once my son got old enough, I did the Clean Parenting Course. Doing that course was on par for changing my life as having my first child. It's like someone finally helped me unlock my soul and helped me really see what the possibilities of life, love and relationships were. I felt I had the keys to becoming the mother and person I was destined to become, I learned so much about myself during that course.
Since then, I have worked intimately with Eliane and done the Deep Healing Program and Clean Relationships Program along with many, many healing sessions. Eliane has become somewhat of a “fairy godmother” in my life- someone who really gets me, is on my team, and is continually helping to guide me back to my greatest source of strength - myself. Between Eliane and the Sisterhood group, I feel like I have someone whom I wholeheartedly trust holding my hand along my journeys of parenting and life.
My life, my children’s lives and my husband’s life have all been impacted in the best way possible. I will forever be grateful for Eliane and her continual support. She has really become like part of my family and I cannot imagine my life without her and her work."