By Eliane Sainte-Marie, founder of Parenting For Wholeness
Did Clair get it right when Rudy broke Cliff's juicer? Check out this video clip and see what you think.
I'll then break down what she did for you.
And that's how it's done, ladies and gentlemen!!!
Kidding aside, this clip beautifully illustrates one of the 4 core principles of my work: being a clear benevolent leader with our children. Giving them the guidance they need to learn to function in our world, in a completely respectful, attuned and non-manipulative way.
I was thrilled to discover this wonderful example in The Cosby Show's The Juicer (season 2, episode 2) because this concept is challenging to describe with words. It needs to be experienced.
(For a full discussion of this principle, read my article: The Key to Well-Behaved Children Who Listen to You, While Fully Respecting Them.)
I consider developing this clear benevolent leadership stance in our families one of the most important things we can do as parents. It's particularly important when our children are young.
I credit having mastered it as the reason I had incredible ease and harmony in my own family as my three daughters were growing up.
So now let's look at what's happening in the clip which is so on point:
I hope this video clip and discussion have given you a clearer sense of what being a leader is, and feels, and looks like. I'd love to hear your thoughts!
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